Kwimithendeleko emininzi ebalulekileyo kunye nezihlandlo, abantu bathanda ukubhabha iibhaluni, ukubukela iibhaluni ngokuthe ngcembe zinyukela phezulu, kwaye umoya wonwabile. Kutheni ivakala kanje?
Abanye abantu banokuthi: kuba iibhaluni ziyimibhiyozo! Kodwa ngaba oku kunjalo ngokwenene?
Ukuba iibhaluni zenza abantu bazive bebhiyoza, kutheni beziva ngendlela eyahlukileyo xa besebenzisa iibhaluni kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo?
Ngoko, ukuba iibhaluni bezibekwe nje ngokungacwangciswanga kwaye ngokuzenzekela, abantu abakule meko bebengayi kungonwabi nje kuphela, kodwa ukhathazekile.
Ngoko, ngoku siyazi ukuba iibhaluni kufuneka zidityaniswe nokusingqongileyo ukuze zibonise umtsalane wazo.
Isizathu silula, ibhaluni yinto yokuhombisa ekufuneka eyona njongo yayo ibe kukwenza okusingqongileyo kunye nomoya wonwabe.
Kanjalo, ibhaluni ngokwayo inemibala eyahlukeneyo kunye neepateni kwaye inomqondo woyilo. Ezi mpawu ziyakwenza ukuba abantu bazive bekhululekile kwaye bonwabile.
Abaninzi bathi batsalwa yimibala emibalabala yeebhaluni.
Ukwengeza, imodeli yobugcisa bebhaluni edumileyo kukwenza iibhaluni zibe ziimo ezahlukeneyo, njengezilwanyana, izityalo, izinto zokudlala, kwaye nangokunjalo. Ezi milo zintsha nazo ziyakutsala amehlo kwaye zenze abantu bazive bebatsha kwaye bonwabile.
Kuba iibhaluni zizisa ulonwabo ebantwini, zisetyenziswa kumaxesha amaninzi. Umzekelo, kwimibhiyozo, amaqela, imitshato, imigidi, kunye nezinye iindawo, abantu baya kuhombisa ngeebhaluni ukuze bonwabe.
Ukongeza kumaxesha amnandi, abantu basenokujamelana nobunzima nobunzima ebomini.
Ngeli xesha, nawaphi na amazwi enkuthazo anokuba yi-cliches. Zama ukunika ibhaluni njengesipho, fihla isipho kwiphakheji yebhaluni, okanye ubhale isivakalisi senkuthazo kunye nentuthuzelo kwibhaluni. Yindlela entsha kwaye inokudlulisa uvelwano lwakho kakuhle, nto leyo enokwenza elinye iqela lizive limangele kwaye likhululekile.
Ngaphandle koko, siye saphawula ukuba ngezinye izihlandlo ezikhethekileyo, njengeekliniki, ezibhedlele, amaziko okubuyisela kwisimo sangaphambili, njl. abasebenzi baya kusebenzisa iibhaluni ukukhokela ingqalelo kunye nokukhulula intlungu yezigulane. Kumakhaya abongikazi, iibhaluni nazo zingabonwa. Iibhaluni zikhapha abantu abadala ukuze banciphise uxinzelelo kwaye bahlale kude nesithukuthezi.
Kutheni iibhaluni zizisa ulonwabo ebantwini? Siye saxubusha izizathu ezibini:
1. Imibala etyebileyo kunye neemilo ezinobuchule zeebhaluni zinokwenza abantu bazive bonwabile kwiimvakalelo.
2. Imeko yokusetyenziswa kweebhaluni ngokwendalo izele yimiba yolonwabo, okanye kufuneka izise umoya wolonwabo ebantwini, ukuze kuphunyezwe injongo yokudlulisela ulonwabo.
Ukongeza kwezi zinto zimbini zingasentla, masitshintshe imbono yethu kwaye sizame ukuphonononga ubudlelwane phakathi kweebhaluni kunye neemvakalelo ngokwembono yengqondo.
Makhe siqale sijonge le mifanekiso mithathu ilandelayo size sive utshintsho kwiimvakalelo ezintliziyweni zethu.
Xa sibona imifanekiso yeebhaluni, imihlambi yeentaka, kunye neenqwelomoya ezindulukayo, iimvakalelo zethu ziyenyuka ngokunjalo.
Oku kunento yokwenza nokunyuka kwengqwalasela yethu, kwaye xa ingqalelo yethu ilandela ibhaluni, umhlambi weentaka, okanye iinqwelomoya phezulu nakude, ngokunjalo namandla omzimba wethu. Xa amandla ekwimeko ephezulu, imvakalelo yeemvakalelo luvuyo, ulonwabo, kunye nepositivity.
Khawufane ucinge, imo yethu iya kuba ntle kakhulu phantsi kwelanga ehlotyeni, kuba amandla endalo akwimo yokunyuka, kunye nemeko ebonakalayo emzimbeni womntu iyafana. Yiyo loo nto abantu abanokudakumba besoloko becetyiswa ukuba babe sesichengeni selanga kakhulu.
Ngaphandle koko, xa sidiniwe ngumsebenzi, sijonge phezulu, amafu esibhakabhakeni, kwaye iintaba ezikude zinokusenza sizive sikhululekile, kwaye ukudinwa kuya kuphela ngokukhawuleza.
Ngamagama amafutshane, umbala kunye nokumila kweebhaluni, iimeko zokusetyenziswa kweebhaluni, nolwalamano oluphakathi kweebhaloni neemvakalelo luchaza isizathu sokuba zinokuzisa ulonwabo ebantwini.
Yoken ngumzi-mveliso ovelisa zonke iintlobo zeebhaloni. Sinethemba iibhaluni zethu inokukuzisela eyona mvakalelo yolonwabo kunye nobomi obungcono.
